As we age, our perspectives, priorities, and values change. The things that we once found exciting, important, or acceptable may no longer serve us or align with our personal growth. As a 30-year-old woman, I have come to realize that there are certain things that I am simply too grown for. In this article, I will discuss five of those things.
Wearing Uncomfortable Shoes
Gone are the days when I would sacrifice comfort for fashion. As I enter my thirties, I have learned to appreciate the importance of taking care of my feet and avoiding unnecessary pain or damage. While some shoes may look great and make us feel confident, they can also cause blisters, calluses, and even long-term foot problems. Instead, I opt for comfortable shoes that still look stylish, such as flats, sneakers, or low-heeled boots. Life is too short to suffer in uncomfortable shoes I refuse to put me through that.
Fake Friends
As we grow older, we learn to value quality over quantity in our relationships. While we may have had a large group of friends in our twenties, it is likely that some of those friendships may not have stood the test of time. I have come to realize that I am too grown for fake friends who only want to be around when things are good and disappear when times get tough. I prefer to surround myself with people who are honest, supportive, and loyal, even if that means having a smaller circle. Life is too precious to waste on people who don’t truly care about us, I refuse to settle for less.
People Pleasing
As a people-pleaser myself, this is something that I struggle with on a daily basis. However, I have come to realize that constantly putting others’ needs and wants before my own is not sustainable or healthy. I am too grown to sacrifice my own happiness and well-being for the sake of pleasing others. While it is important to be kind, compassionate, and considerate, it is equally important to set boundaries, assert oneself, and prioritize one’s own needs. Life is too short to live for others, and as a grown woman, I refuse to do so.
Being Afraid to Speak Up
In my twenties, I often found myself staying quiet or avoiding confrontation in order to avoid conflict or disapproval. However, I have come to realize that silence can be just as damaging as speaking up, especially when it comes to important issues such as equality, justice, and human rights. I am too grown to be afraid to use my voice and stand up for what I believe in. While it may not always be easy or comfortable, it is necessary to speak up against injustice, ignorance, and oppression. Life is too precious to stay silent, and as a grown woman, I refuse to remain quiet.
Self-Doubt and Insecurity
Last but not least, I am too grown for self-doubt and insecurity. While it is natural to have moments of uncertainty or vulnerability, it is important to recognize our worth, strengths, and accomplishments. As a 30-year-old woman, I refuse to let self-doubt and insecurity hold me back from pursuing my dreams, taking risks, and living my life to the fullest. While it may be a constant battle, I am determined to embrace my imperfections, celebrate my achievements, and trust in my own abilities. Life is too short to doubt oneself.
